If you are expecting a baby, you well meaning friends have probably given much unsolicited advice about parenthood, and while parenting is not an exact science, some advice that you consider following is to take a “babymoon.” A babymoon is an indulgent vacation for expecting couples geared to focus on your relationship so that it is strong and refreshed for your new arrival. There are a few different ways to approach babymooning including an all out vacation, a stay-cation, and, if your pregnancy need dictate it, and in-home resort.

Though it may not be wise to take your dream vacation while you are pregnant, air travel is deemed safe up to the thirty-forth week of pregnancy. For a nice trip that is easy on your already stressed body, consider a weekend getaway that involves a luxury hotel and spa. Night life is clearly not on your agenda right now, so less frequented places known for great Bed and Breakfasts may also be a good option. Either way, a nice day spa experience will certainly prepare your psyche for the arrival of your new family member.

If for either pregnancy or money related issues’, flying is not an option for you, consider a stay-cation. Disguise yourself as a tourist and stay at a local resort for the weekend; you may be able to book a better deal for a weekday stay as many places have discrepancies between weekday and weekend prices. Take in all the local tourist attractions that you have never considered or gotten around to experiencing. Ride the horse and carriage downtown, or take tour boat down the river or canal—whatever your town has to offer. Without the travel expense, you could spring for a top notch spa, perhaps something all inclusive.

For either option, do not forego doctor’s orders. Make sure that any masseuse is certified in pre-natal technique, and, of course, skip the sauna and hot tub. If you are uncomfortable with pregnancy massage, perhaps a manicure and pedicure, a chair massage, or foot and hand reflexology would suit you. Couples packages are readily available for you and your spouse to relax and enjoy a slice of peace together, and certainly any quality rest you can get now is soon to be appreciated.

It is quite a conundrum. Those who may need a babymoon the most are those who have spent much of the pregnancy on bed rest or other strict orders. If this is the case for you, call a few local massage techs and caterers and inquire about booking a night of unwinding in your own home. With baby coming along with her own set of looming expenses, an in-home resort stay-cation may be the most practical for you and your spouse.
Often gestation is wished away in anticipation of the new arrival, but booking a babymoon can emphasize your relationship with your spouse, and get you back to the state of mind that made you want to make babies in the first place. And, being welcomed into the world by a happy, healthy mommy and daddy is surely at the top of your baby’s list.