Changing up the scenery from time to time can make any real swinging housewife even more excited, so why not look into something like this?
If you're met another couple over the Internet and they're out of town, meeting up somewhere in between can provide for an erotic and adventurous location.
Making The Plans
When it comes to any vacation planning, you want to sort out all the details first. There's nothing like a few surprises to kill a mood.
Start with picking a few destinations that you might enjoy, factoring in your own separate budgets and preferences. The more private and warm the destination is, the better, in my opinion.
But if warm isn't an option, then you just might want to look into places that exude desire. Honeymoon suites might be a little strange though.
Pick the place and then get tickets and hotel reservations. If you want to maintain a sense of privacy, then you will want to reserve the rooms separately. This ensures that you won't know each other's names unless you want to reveal them.
You can just talk about what room number you can find a real swinging housewife.
This might sounds a bit paranoid, but if you've never met before, it's a good way to keep everyone safe.
When You Arrive
If you've decided to remain anonymous at first, then respect that boundary and don't try to find each other just yet. Get settled in and meet up at a restaurant or other neutral location.
Have a lovely conversation and see how the four (or more) of you get along. If dinner goes well and the mood seems fitting, then you may want to exchange room numbers (showing each other your keys and giving the spares to each other) and then let the night begin.
Be sure to acknowledge your spouse throughout dinner to show how much you love them. Touch them and kiss them constantly.
What Else Do You Do?
Well, this part is really up to you and your comfort level. I like to make the rule that I wake up with my husband and only my husband in the morning.
This gives our relationship priority and we can talk about our adventures in private if we choose. Sometimes, we even like to share breakfast together as well as the morning. Heck, we're on vacation!
You may want to leave a way to contact each other the next day to set up another fun evening or afternoon.
And from there, you can enjoy as much swinging as you'd like.
A last suggestion is to make sure that you don't plan too much time together. You don't want to feel like you 'have' to be together all the time. You may want to say that three nights are as far as you will absolutely save for each other.
And then you can enjoy your own relationship for the remainder, or go home.
Of course, if you're having fun, then by all means, keep the party going.
About the author
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By: Julia Tanner